Bananas. Pretty much describes my life. This sh*t is bananas.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
They say all sorts of things, from "it's completely and forever over" to " we're separated." It depends on the day and the audience.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Ha, good one NYGal. I have no clue what my H tells people but I do know he has told a few ppl he has an A. I don't too many people outside of our closest circle know that he had an A. For some reason, I feel the need to "protect" that side of things.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
