I understand how hard it is to go from contact everyday to nothing. And, I am sure detaching seems counterproductive because it seems like they are slipping away. I begged, pleaded, pursued and sent texts and emails. I created situations to contact him and he wouldn't respond or respond in very cold ways. All I can say is that doing all that caused him to withdraw even more. So, I think the only thing we can try is DB'ing. I think you are really strong and doing great…..the way you handled it when he came over to get his things was really strong. And, remember he didn't take all of his things, he still is your friend on Facebook, there is still some contact there. Now, I don't want you to mind read either way….good or bad but there will be contact. Keep doing what you are doing, so you are ready to be confident and strong for when he does.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
