Broke I know EXACTLY how you feel..all weekend when he had the kids I got tons of texts and messages then now that hes back without us and the Ow It will be days of silence. It drives me bonkers.
I have to work on my no touching Boundary. It lasted a week then this weekend too many hugs and even today was about 8 before he left.
I also think about the same when my H wants the kids on days he can barely see them before bed.