It definitely seems like the world revolves around the WAS, doesn't it? She's lonely, she would like to get paid back. I get the same story from my H. Not that this would help reconciliation, but when you are ready, can you deduct what she owes you from what you pay her?

My H texted me on two different occasions today, so I feel your pain about watching the phone. While I hate that it dragged me back into the abyss, it seems like you have a good handle on it today. Sounds very healthy….I'm hoping to get back on that train very soon.

Enjoy the boys - sounds like it is going very well with them!


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16