I know it's a struggle. I don't have any advice, as I'm right there with you. But I like to think that the chances of us saying one thing completely derailing everything is exceedingly unlikely. I mean, reverse the situation. If she told you the same thing, would you listen?
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward