Nothing specific, she doesn't mention him to anyone. He was at her place when she moved her stuff out of the house according to our friend that helped her. I think he is potentially driving this 'scared of me' crap. He said because I tried to punch him when i went to his place and found her there. If i would have 'tried' i would have succeeded, lets put it that way.
Look, my WW used the same excuses, "Just a friend, etc." I didn't tell her how I knew about her restarting the EA, but I showed her emails to some friends and nobody can deny they are more than friends, even though it seems to be just an EA.
She tried to put the responsibility on me but those who saw the emails knew the truth. So she finally had to own up to the fact that she did me wrong.
This is probably not DB but it was important for me to get the truth out there. I'm sure you have the same "gut" feeling as me and eventually you will have to tackle this issue. In my opinion, it is very different if there is an OM involved compared to if she were just frustrated with you. When my WW was frustrated with me, she sought out OM. Nothing really happened for many years until HE got divorced and started playing her.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
