This is the way I see it. If they are really that into us, they will contact us. When they do, we must be ready to respond in a strong and confident manner.
They already know that we will do anything to get them back. When we initiate contact for frivolous reasons, it only reinforces the idea that we are still clingy.
We dont initiate but we don't push them away. Hope this makes sense.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.