Hey thanks for the reply, I did a bit of validating during and after and it felt good to be able to says things which I knew were going to help. I guess I'm on a long and winding road, which is very different to my normal, direct way of travelling!
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted