Nothing specific, she doesn't mention him to anyone. He was at her place when she moved her stuff out of the house according to our friend that helped her. I think he is potentially driving this 'scared of me' crap. He said because I tried to punch him when i went to his place and found her there. If i would have 'tried' i would have succeeded, lets put it that way.

She has thrown at me in anger that she is attracted to him and him to her but sometimes I feel he has got himself into something he didn't expect, but has also said he is just a good friend. Anyway, as has been said, he is not really the major problem, she is. Her thoughts and feelings etc. However, hers are very mixed up, even me going to the gym is being twisted into me looking healthier but scarier.... I am only doing cardio, no weights at all.

She is not ready to face her own responsiblilities yet so I'm still the target. She told one friend that she wasn't having an affair but as I really don't have much trust in anything she says...