Hi tfish, sorry this is happening to you. I was struggling with questions this weekend too and I didn't know what to say either. MLCers put us in such bad positions, lie for them, pretend things are okay lying to kids, or tell them the truth and see them hurt. It's sad they can't see what they are doing to everyone else. I don't know if I'm saying the right things to my kids, sometimes it's a struggle to keep it together when they ask or tell me something, but I make sure they know I am always there for them and love them. Sometimes I feel i can't do much else, it's like trying to explain crazy to a child.
