"The one small nice thing about it is that while he's in a relationship with me, he can't be in one with OW and I secretly hope that that is grating on her. (I know, I'm a terrible person and that's terrible DBing)"

Thank you, I needed that chuckle!

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16