I don't think it's hopeless. It's all so new. He has no idea if this OW is going to work out or not. He may be miserable in no time, confused for months, and only then missing you. I wanted it to happen faster and many counseled me to be patient. It takes time. And the last thing we want is for them to come back before they're ready and do it all over again to us. And when they do come back? That's when we have to take it really slowly. And it's always better to do nothing than to do or say the wrong thing. Patience.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
