I'm scared DBing is going to have the wrong effect for me at this time.
This is the reason why it doesn't work for many people -- they doubt it is best and continue to pursue, beg, plead and do the things they shouldn't do, then when they finally give up on that it's too late.
Glad you slept on it and glad you're keeping the faith. How to deal with a hostile person who wants to argue with you is a difficult skill to master, but something you can do.
Simply refuse to engage. "I will not have this conversation with you now, I'm sorry that you seem upset" repeat, repeat.
Do not see her anger and spewing as a reflection on you or the situation, it's about the turmoil going on inside of her and there's nothing you can do about it.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
