Wife wants to leave but still at home 2

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I don't think she wants to stand on her own two feet. There are two other feet still in the picture and they're not yours. Women don't leave to be alone unless they absolutely have to (abuse, cheating husband). She might want to leave, but not to be alone. You need to find out what is really going on or you don't have a chance to fix it.

I would concur with this. Were you able to find out more about OM?