Looking for a Spark in the dark 3

[Sparkls]

It's a multifold thing for me. One is so I won't have to worry about him doing it to me. Another is maybe it'll mean something to him, inspire some sort of change. Cause there hasn't been any change otherwise. Part of it is that it says In an Open relationship from when we were and seeing that now kind of makes me sick and makes me think that people will see that and he'll be justified in what he's doing. I can't change it to just in a relationship without him knowing or approving it.
And part of me is like dude, it's *facebook* it literally means nothing. After all, he hasn't changed it either and he's on the damned thing every single day.
The one small nice thing about it is that while he's in a relationship with me, he can't be in one with OW and I secretly hope that that is grating on her. (I know, I'm a terrible person and that's terrible DBing)