Quote: The success of a marriage is directly related to the difference in desire for sex (according to Dr. Harley). Great marriages usually don't have any issues with sex.
C'mon, CeMar... do you really believe this? No issues with sex? Isn't that kind of a tall order?
My immediate goal at the moment doesn't even have anything to do with sex, it has to do with fundamentally reconnecting with my wife. I believe that if I can do that, I may have a shot at having a LOT more sex than I've been having for at least the last 15 years. However, at this point, I'm pretty much assuming that W and I will be "different" in terms of desire for the rest of our lives, so we'll BOTH have to learn how to live with that, or we'll have to separate. At this point, the jury is VERY much out on which it'll be, but I'm DESPERATELY hoping we learn how to live with it. If we can, I'm betting we can have a GREAT marriage, but my definition of GREAT may be different from yours.
