Hi Mahhhty, I agree with GMum - please don't engage with OM in any way and perhaps let MIL take the kids to hospital instead. You're understandably still feeling pretty raw about what you have learned and when in doubt, do nothing I would say.

Yes, if you are going to be somewhere else on the forum, do let us know. The Surviving the big D part of the forum is pretty active and everyone there is D already. It may suit you better if you want to keep posting but feel Newcomers isn't the right place for you anymore.

Really pleased to read about your business venture and hope all continues to go well xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus