Well, he finally stepped up to the plate (one of the few times in our marriage) and paid the truck payment. However, I can't live from month to month wondering if he will or if he won't. Now, he wants to try a different counselor instead of the one we've been going to for the last 6 months. I'm not sure if he's looking for someone who will totally buy in to his viewpoint, or if he's sincere about wanting help. He feels our counselor "chose sides" when he consistently refused to do anything she asked of him. He kept offering excuses as to why he wasn't following through, so I'm not really suprised that she quit taking him at his word. I never felt that she was siding with me; I certainly got my butt chewed a few times. I don't have a problem with our current one, but he is adamant about never going to her again. I'm not sure what I want to do or if it's even worth the effort.
