Ghost Busting - Time to accept what is happening

[mahhhty]

You need to have the conversation first, and then find the answer. Not find the answers and then have the conversation. You also can't use your D as a way to motivate your W. That won't work. Your W needs to see the damage she is doing for herself. Experience is the best teacher.

D is going to be upset about the separation. You are also raising a girl to be smart, strong and resourceful (right)... Taking her to work through it on her own with someone is important and may be the only solution.