You have to keep biting your tongue. Continue to go through Legal Representation so that you don't have to be fighting her.
She is lost. She is not the woman you married. All you can do is act as if. Be confident and strong. That is THE only way.
When her selfishness shakes and the mirrors begin to fall she will be back. But you have got to be the Confident Strong person she meet a long time ago.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015