Where will we go from here

[Sparkls]

I wouldn't obsess about her phrasing. I know it's hard but tenses are weird and she very well could've meant nothing by it.

I think keeping the cordial is a good plan since she's so edgy Don't ask her questions, don't respond to anything personal but answer straight forward, the same way you would to a neighbor. (Like if a neighbor asked about the dog, what would you say? "He's doing well")