Originally Posted By: TimR

Truth is no one but us are in our sitchs. We all may have similar sitchs, but only we know our hearts.


I so agree with this. Sometimes other people just want us to be happy so they don't have to worry about us, and they think the only way to be happy is to move on. We are exactly where we need to be. It's important to not let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to do, and to rest assured that you know your own mind AND your R better than anyone else.

And as far as H moving on? Sounds like he's miserable. That's not moving on at all. That's confusion. That's weighing choices, and being unhappy with the ones he's made so far.

Hang in there!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat