Now, the real work begins...Part III

[broke]

Tim - I haven't headed too far back into professional world. I am only substitute teaching because I still take the boys to and from their private schools. So, I am studying for the teaching tests when I am not working. I am also meeting with a friend to decide if I should get back into finance (more money) or do teaching full-time (more rewarding)

Yes, when I read your posts about S13 it makes me so sad that my H doesn't prioritize his own sons the way you want to fight for your stepsons. It is heartbreaking that he selfishly puts his needs before theirs especially when they are devastated by this divorce.

Thornton,

I am so grateful for you, too. Probably first time I've had happy tears in a long time! You are right - who knows what H is doing. I need to make sure my focus is on me and my boys. It helps having the reminder that mind-reading is useless. Just tough not to do it!

As always, thanks for being part of my DB team. Couldn't do it without all the folks on this board!