It is probable that she isn't comfortable alone and believes replacing you will pass the time better than dealing with her.
The fact that she isn't in a R is good. You need to employ all Sandi's Rules (Look Good, Act Happy, Act As if you have moved on, as if things have changed, be confident and charismatic). It is these things that will help you. Talking about feelings, justifications, reasonings... none of that will do any good.
If you don't mind me asking. Why don't you have the boys 50/50 custody?
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
