I'm curious what you saw as controlling in my post?
I am not trying to control anyone, and my focus is very much on myself and my own future, which I'm actually very excited about (but don't post much about), whether it involves H or nobody or someone else (and that feels actually very secondary to me right now). My post above was in response to Ju to share my thoughs of why I don't think H is truly committed or has the right mindset for a lasting R. And I'm okay with that. He is who he is.
The challenge now is to maintain an amicable cooperation through the process.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
