Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey Jb9140,

Sorry your going through this, I have been there, with the anger. OTW is right read sandis rules. You have to stop the arguing at all cost. Physically remove your self if needed to avoid the arguments.

As for a link, start a new thread first and then a link can be posted here if you want.

As for me,

Things have been moving with the house, First day it was listed we received an offer, this is were it went south.

It was a strong offer we talked about it, and countered, they counted back. We had an open house that W was working on and she had all this interest in the house. she wanted full asking price.

This is what I don't get. I was pushing to take the offer, she like in the past heard what I said and just did what she wanted to do. Some reason she wanted to let this offer go and do the open houses thinking she would get a full price offer. It became about the money. She in the negotiations lied to the people about another offer on the table and then lied about not being able to reach me to extend the deadline. this is her character showing.

She has lost the reason for selling, to Separate, not to make money. I did voice my concerns but I regretfully did not push hard enough, like most big decision's I thought she was an agent before she knows what she is doing. It was a risk to let the offer go, she knew the best offer is the one you have now.

The open house is done and we have no offer. Ok I take some responsibility for it. I didn't push harder, but part of me doesn't even want this so hard to push for it.

So after I talk with her and remind her why we are selling, we need to take the next best offer.

SO W starts to get worried that the house will sell and she wont have a place to go to and starts saying she can just stay at her parents house for a while. I was thinking she could just stay at my new place. But I STFU it is her problem.

With the whole offer letting go thing it made me question what she wants, if she wanted out of the MR, why not just take that offer instead of holding off for 6 thousand dollars? She was all about the money. I don't want to put too much detail here about it but it was like I was in the twilight zone. It didn't make sense. And because I have a place lined up I need the place to sell now.

This is slowly turning into the night mare I was wishing it wouldn't. By agreeing to do the S W way it is putting us in such a place of risk all to save money from the Lawyers. I am accepting that risk by going with it.

I will just end it there, I am sure it will work out.

So that is where it stands, I have locked in my place, W is going to lock into her place tomorrow, and then mean while the house is still for sale.