My first post - please be nice.

[collin]

I need help/advice/opinions:

My church asked me to help out/be a leader with a youth event from April 8-10. This date also corresponds with the time where my daughter will be out of town and my wife moving out. I'm thinking about just letting the church know I can't participate because I don't think I will mentally be "in it". I just don't know how I can be a leader at a church event helping the youth grow in Christ, when my world is falling apart around me.

I don't know what to do...