Having slept on it I can now see DBing is the right approach - to just get on and be the best I can be.

However, I'd like to know from those with kids how they managed it? I think due to Mothers day being yesterday and the fact I had the kids all day pissed her off? Is this a good thing so that she is seeing the consequences of her actions?

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted