I know your right T, but it seems so counter intuitive. If I am not there for emotional support, who will be? Someone else will fill that void it would seem. That's the scary part.
I guess if she really cares for me, she will want my support and may then begin to miss it when I withhold. That my friend is scary and will be so hard. I know I can do it if it is the right thing to do.
Are you really prepared to be an "emotional" support for her when (if) she comes to you crying about another man? I know I wasn't and am not and will never will. Fcuk that $hit. You deserve to be with someone who desires to be with you and not someone who you have to beg for attention.