I'm starting to think that the faster we get D, the sooner my daughter can begin adjusting to her parents being split. At least she wouldn't have to live in a tension filled home. My concern is that the WS is taking her with her to see the OM, and making her keep secrets from me. If so, that's a big burden to place on a child, but I know it's possible because my WS went through that herself as a child. Though her folks made their way back together. I guess that's what gives me some hope, that WS is going through what her mother did, and then she'll come back around.
I'm also concerned that my WS will continue to drink after I move out, and how safe that would be for my daughter. At least I can protect her physically while I'm here.
