I hope you were able to take a step back from your sitch and allow yourself to just enjoy the moment. You can always worry about H later.
It's interesting that when you had your own life, H was seemingly more attracted to you. I'm assuming you gave off a confident vibe and that was attractive to him.
Think about those times when he tended to chase you. How were you different than you are now? Do you notice any differences?
Is there anything you can do to bring some of the old Broke, back?