Thanks Tim. What blows is that it was happening under my nose for so long, and I was so complacent and never checked her phone or email even though I set them up for her! And with the history from 17 years ago. How I wish I had a time machine to go back 9 years and nip it in the bud! You are right, we're not out of the race. The key will be to detach from her difficulties once she does move out, yet not seem like a d*ck at it. It will be tough if it's got to do with S11, for example, I help him with his homework frequently and she has no clue how to do them. And I'm sure her computer will blow up.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
