Dear Job, I'm getting better and feeling better, THANK YOU SO MUCH for getting back. Learned a lot from the posts of this forum, I appreciate the help from you and the other great writers of the forum !
Gained some weight and sleeping pretty well in three months. Moved back to my own apartment for six months and am comfortable to live by myself.
Pardon me for having questions; I know my husband's had affairs(an emotional one at the beginning and physical affair later) I learn from HB that the midlife crisiser trying to have their childhood/parent issue solved when they are having affairs... but I found the two affair partner are at young age(26 and 22) husband even told me the two women are just like his mother in some way. Why husband had affair with 'young' women. Husband's looking for love and emotion substituted from the young women(as the age of his mother when he was a boy) ?
I recall that he kept asking me weird questions before bomb dropped 18 months ago - do you miss the days when we were young ? do you feel like going back to college days? I like the young people in office. They(young people) are so creative. I like the outfit they have, the way they dressed... etc,.
