Yes, I think she has this "idealized" version of divorce where we are still "friends" and may even do things together, etc. I have already started to detach, I do not text her at all or initiate communications unless there is something business-related to talk to her about.

She just emailed me a custody schedule where I have S11 Wed-Fri, she has him Sun-Tue, and we switch off on Saturdays. Do you guys see any problems with that? I asked for the second half of the week because his baseball practices are usually later in the week. Do you guys see any problems with this?


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016