Yes, I think it was Ancaire that termed it a "LBS fog"
Would any of us knowingly want to date a guy that we knew cheated on and left his wife and small kids?
NO WE WOULD NOT!!!!! Warning signs would be going off. I would be repulsed by a man that could do that.
I know I would be attracted to a man that was loyal and committed. So why are we the ones that are jealous and longing for them back? Why are we making excuses for them?