Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[melweb]

Seriously Nel. Good grief. But you are right we had a good day, cordial, kind. He picked up dog poop (its normally my job), fixed my tv for me, and helped pick up dinner.

After dinner he brings up "us." The gist: he still loves me, always will, but he wants passion. And he just doesn't. Its gone and been gone for years. That everything from the last month and a half was while we were ML. Says he doesn't want a divorce but he won't make a rash, hasty decision like he did before the holidays. That he will treat me kind and courteous. I said all the things from the playbook: I am sorry you feel that way, I understand, I respect your feelings. I did ask of he would go to counseling as an honest attempt to work on us, and he said yes. Do you think its too soon to pursue this?

For the most part, it seems his actions are not lining up with the crap that is coming out of his mouth. After my shower, he came and gave me a hug and kiss good night.