Now, the real work begins...Part III

[broke]

Thank you for the positive feedback. It was a great day with my boys - it really was.

Tim - I think your analogy of the rope is great. I don't think I am that close to being at the end of my rope yet (in this particular case :-). But, I do feel like I am starting to understand what it will look like if we get divorced and I know that I can do it. Do I want to do it without H? Not yet.

Hope - I appreciate you weighing in on the DB coach. I may try it because "being friends' is the hardest line I am walking because I do have to interact with him about the kids. Interestingly enough, my H also seemed to be more in love with me when I wasn't the stay-at-home mom that put the kids and him before myself. When I was more selfish he seemed to be more interested in me. It's all so complicated isn't it?!