My H did the same thing at the beginning. Would tell me we were on the path to divorce but then kiss me goodbye everyday. I only wish I would've found this site back then. Stick to the DB'ing plan….the posts from LiM and 1313 are right on. Read Sandi's rules and start detaching. I am hopeful for you that you are DB'ing early and can get the help you need before you make all the mistakes I did :-).
Keep posting and good luck!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16