My H did the same thing at the beginning. Would tell me we were on the path to divorce but then kiss me goodbye everyday. I only wish I would've found this site back then. Stick to the DB'ing plan….the posts from LiM and 1313 are right on. Read Sandi's rules and start detaching. I am hopeful for you that you are DB'ing early and can get the help you need before you make all the mistakes I did :-).

Keep posting and good luck!


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16