Too Much Time Is Passing By

[broke]

Hope,

My mother told me, no actually yelled at me, on New Year's Day that I needed to move forward and get over it. It was heart breaking, but your family and friends just can't stand to see you hurting. They think by telling us to move forward that you just can….you can stop hurting and just let go. No one understands unless they have been through this before. But, only you can decide when it is time to give up hope. Only you can decide when you want to move forward. You are choosing to stand for your M right now. Everyone keeps saying that we will know when it is time to drop the rope….I choose to believe in that.

I am glad your in-laws are being supportive of you. After 25 years being part of their family, my in-laws miss me, but they haven't stood up for me (and my family). So, it makes me happy to hear that they are telling your H the truth about what he has done. I hope it helps your sitch.

Keep doing what you are doing! Stay strong and enjoy your time out of the city!