My H filed for a D a month ago, too. But, he moved out 5 months ago. I hope that by you DB'ing right away when she moves will help her realize what she is losing. I made so many mistakes that I hope you can avoid. Keep GAL'ing, detaching and doing your 180's. I know it hurts but stay strong. You can do this.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16