Now, the real work begins...Part III

[HopeRB]

Sounds like you're doing one heck of a job out there today, broke. Keep going!

i am not consistent with my conversations with coach, but I do feel like she is a help.

What she says is often different then what the board say. I am torn between little contact, and trying to be a friend (I think he views as pursual)

I'm the same way as JujuB: my sessions aren't always consistent but we do talk, I definitely walk away a little more enlightened about the inner workings and nuances of the DB principles and how they apply to my specific sitch, along some actionable steps. But like Juju, I also find myself torn between the NC versus what DB coach suggests of trying to be like "an old friend." It seems my H also views me being nice/affirming as pursuing. So does that mean I should just be a b**** to him? I'm so nit that woman anymore. Just had a funny thought that back in the day when I was b**** to him, he seemed to be head over heels with me...something to think about lol.