The worst part is when you feel powerless. If the other person chooses to not have contact.

If you can get to a place where you are aware that you could contact her but you *choose* not to, you'll feel better. And you could. You just know it's not the right thing to do at this time.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17