Time takes time, D. Time will tell how this plays out. But it won't be on your timeline. They say it takes patience, that's an understatement.
The truth is, you are going to be fine. I know it doesn't feel like that right now but it's the truth. You will absolutely get through this and thrive.
Get determined and focused to become the best version of DbyD. If your W doesn't snap out of it in time, some other lucky lady will gladly take her place.
