Glad it passed over And yes, people do change - we may have made a good assessment with the information we had at the time but people can grow or "unfold" in ways we can't predict.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final