Long time

[Nel]

Job- I've been dealing with his crisis for over three years now. That's when the first BD was. I feel like it needs to end sooner or later. But I know, everyone is different. I read that it takes "something" to make them wake up, but we don't know what that "something" is and it's different for everyone.

I don't want his mom to push him to come home, but to talk about that time period in his childhood where he was hurt so badly emotionally and sometimes physically by his dad. I think that would help him heal.

I'm definitely going to the tournament this weekend. I've always been there for my girls. I just didn't know how to act around H. I think I'm just going to be friendly and see what happens.

Nel