So Job, here comes my crystal ball question for you. Have you seen the MLC'er get to a point where they start looking in and seeing they are behind the chaos they are causing? Does that become part of the waking up process at the end?
Eventually, some of them will look within and recognize the chaos they've created...but that's a long way down the road for your h.
I think your h is just starting to get truly disenchanted w/everything and his impatience w/people and life are starting to play out. Just look at how he is complaining about your son...you may not have seen a lot of anger from your h in the beginning, but I think it's starting to come to the surface now because of the way he's acting. As long as things go his way on the highway, he's happy, but when things aren't going his way, that anger is going to show and right now....it's simmering.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.