Don - I agree with Tim, try to figure out what your reasons are for not making it a family vacation. Maybe it should be cancelled or postponed. It may push her further away if you tell her not to go or if you all go it could make your situation worse.

I am sorry that you are here and going through this. Best advice I can give is try to GAL, detach and do your 180's. Don't pursue her or push her to talk about M or reconciliation. It just backs them into a corner. Be the best dad you can be and improve yourself.

Keep posted. Hoping you stick with it because she seems conflicted and I hope you can make it work!

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16