Looking for a Spark in the dark

[broke]

Well, Sparks, I certainly can empathize with you. I spoke to my H everyday for 25 years ending each conversation with "I love you". It stopped about 8 months ago and he hasn't seemed to come to his senses or miss me unfortunately. This whole weekend I was hopeful he would reach out because he doesn't have the kids and he wasn't going out of town. I thought he might miss us (especially since I've been detaching for the last month). My guess is he is with the OW.

I do think that you have really done a great job right at the beginning DB'ing, acting as if and GAL'ing. It's only been a month, so I think time is in your favor. I've been thinking that maybe he was a little intimidated by you having your sh!t together. You were on the brink of getting your assignment and moving and maybe that scared him. Hopefully, he will see what he is missing while he is gone and you are DB'ing like crazy. Regardless, I think you have a really bright future ahead and you are young and smart. He is a fool if he doesn't come to his senses. And, I wouldn't worry about the timing - if he really wants to be with you, he will make it happen.

On another note, I hope disc golf is fun!