Still moving in a new direction

[mleigh4]

The anger issue, you all seem to see the same behavior and think of it the same. It is so strange because H was not like this. He was always very quiet and calm. In fact it was ME that would have occasional tantrums and him who would say it's no big deal. What I am seeing is a very, I demand to be treated right attitude, it is always everyone else's fault. No mistakes are allowed, meanwhile, he is occasionally the cause of the problem in the first place....

For example, with his work reimbursement, he did not turn in the forms properly. He said there was some email he never got or saw going over the new procedures....but he still took it out on the girl who issues the checks....

Oh, that reminds me, my friend did finally come across H office in the building. She saw his nameplate but has yet to see him.

When I dropped off S yesterday, H told me, I am so mad! I told him not to worry, that S will like his gift whether he gets it today or Monday. I reminded him, you know S, he is so easy going about this stuff. I told him it's not worth the stress. He went on to tell me the whole story, what Amazon told him as the reason, which actually brought out a big laugh in me that caused H to laugh about it too. In the end, he ended up getting free tax and free Amazon Prime for a month. His answer to them, is that all I get? SMH.

Job, the time issue really blows me away. H has absolutely no sense of time or time management. These battles in the last couple of days have affected time with his son....being almost late to the movies and not being able to pick him up yesterday....it's so silly to me.

I am glad I can see it is all part of the scrambled egg brain process, it keeps me from getting irritated or angry with him. Especially helps that it seems to be a pattern you all see too.

So Job, here comes my crystal ball question for you. Have you seen the MLC'er get to a point where they start looking in and seeing they are behind the chaos they are causing? Does that become part of the waking up process at the end?