Sorry you are here. Get the book. Read the book. And follow the advice. Read other peoples stories and post about your own What you are going through is not fair and it hurts. Yes, you may be able to save this and she may be able to fall back in love with you. One of the hardest things to come to grips with is that you can't control the other person. They have to make decisions for what they want in their life. Your job right now is to work on YOU. Put the M aside for now and work on YOU. Its counterintuitive but it is a process that can work. What can you 180? What can you do to GAL? Follow Sandi's rules. Tell us more about your sitch. Whats going on in your R? What are You accountable for? And how can you change the things that you are responsible for?
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
